The Concept

Planet Me hosts a variety of courses, designed to initiate and support conversations, for and with children and young people around growing up, modern life, mental health, well-being, choice and balance. Planet Me also offer communication courses for parents and care givers as well as a fun and useful book range designed by children for children.

Our Aim

Planet Me has been developed alongside professionals working in Education and Health. It sets about making positive change in these areas by simply starting a conversation.

The aims of Planet Me are to eliminate any thoughts of being abnormal, to minimise feelings of shame and being alone. To allay fears and worries around life and growing up. To inform, educate, familiarise and de-stigmatise all mental and physical characteristics. To build confidence, worth and self-esteem. To perpetuate awareness of actions both for ourselves and also the impact on others. To encourage open and honest conversations with no secrets or taboo subjects, no question too small, too big or too trivial on all aspects of growing up. To encourage children to celebrate how amazing they are and to realise their full potential. To recognise they are all equal, with unique traits, personalities, strengths, weaknesses all packaged up in their own wonderful, personalised Planet Me.

Planet Me Courses

Life Links - weekly sessions for all children to attend

Life Links offer children and young people tools and techniques to help deal with modern life. As part of the weekly sessions, topics such as confidence, self-esteem, mindfulness, stress and anxiety, friendships, defeatism, socialising, empathy, communication, empowerment, choice and consequence are explored. These areas are introduced via a range of age appropriate multi-media resources and investigated further through structured group discussions and roleplay.

Our Life Link coaches facilitate the sessions, which are divided into age groups.

During Life Link sessions children are encouraged and taught how to express themselves, to discuss how they feel about a subject, ask questions, explore choices and consequences around their actions, consider others’ feelings and to have fun. The role of the Planet Me Life Link communication coach is not only to listen and support, but also to initiate conversations with and between the children and young people, encouraging and allowing them to share their own life experiences with their peers, build confidence and self-esteem, discuss worries and fears in a safe, non-judgemental, positive group environment.

Life Links coping techniques include using art, music, dance, laughter, breathing, relaxation, roleplay, positive thoughts, mental wellbeing exercises and lots more. Life Links encourage children and young people to transfer their coping techniques as well as verbal and non-verbal communication skills into their everyday lives by simply having the tools and confidence to start a conversation.

Life Link sessions include:

Planet Me – Baby Life Link (with parents) (0 – 2.8months) - including:

  • Sleep. Feeding. Bonding with Baby. Crying. Sneezing. Hitting Milestones. Getting on a schedule. Listening to others. Saying No. Being Perfect. Losing the baby weight. Fear.
  • Baby Massage.

Planet Me – Tots Life Link (with parents) (2.9 months – 5 years) - including:

  • Sleep. Feeding. Hitting Milestones. Getting on a schedule. Listening to others. Saying No. Being Perfect. Fears.
  • Separation anxiety, Making friends. Sharing.

Planet Me – Kids Life Link – (6-8 years) - including:

  • Making and keeping friends. Bullying. Self-esteem. Anxiety. Changes and transitions. Making difficult choices. Keeping safe. What is a family. Keeping healthy.

Planet Me – Tweens Life Link (9-11 years) – including:

  • Friendships. My changing body. Creativity. Relaxation. Self-confidence. Kindness. Happiness. Social media. Death. Terrorism, war, pollution, global warming, endangered animals and natural disasters.

Planet Me – Teens Life Link – (11-14 years) - including:

  • Relationships – love interests. Careers. Finance. Self-belief. Insecurities. Dealing with schoolwork and grades. Belonging – fitting in and being liked by peers. Body image. Overscheduling. Family conflict. Future.

Planet Me – Nearly Adult Life Link – (15 – 18 years) - including:

  • Lack of confidence in myself and my abilities. Second guessing myself. Taking on other people’s issues or problems. Taking care of myself. Scared of change. Careers.
Course Details – How to book and cost

Life Link sessions are held for 52 weeks of the year in locations across the UK. For venue, registration and payments details please contact info@planetme.org.uk

Each session lasts for one hour and costs £10 per child, payable monthly by direct debit.

Parents/children/young people will be asked to fill in a short anonymous questionnaire at the beginning and end of their Life Link course.

Stepping Stones – courses that focus on particular topics

The Stepping Stones communication courses are for children/young people aged 6 to 18 years who have a particular area in their lives, in common that needs a bit of working/talking through. The courses are streamed into both age (6-8, 9-11,12-14,15 plus) and subject group (e.g. Grief and Loss, Eating, Stress and Anxiety, Self-harm). The ‘Stepping Stones’ courses run for ten consecutive weeks, for one and a half hours per week.

Stepping Stones courses are unique to each group, they are child/young people centered so each course will move and be led by the children taking part in it. Each course, hosted by two Planet Me Communication Coaches, will work its way through a range of age appropriate multi-media conversation prompt tools to encourage open discussion on the chosen topic. Careful consideration is taken when selecting material used to initiate, open, factual, non-judgmental discussions around each subject. Each course can accommodate up to eight children/young people.

Courses will run throughout the UK. It is hoped places will be available through GP referral (NHS funded) as well as self-referral (self-funded)

Stepping Stones course topics include:

  1. Stress, anxiety and panic attacks.
  2. Grief and loss.
  3. Low self-esteem and self-harm
  4. Square peg, round hole.
  5. Specific Phobias
  6. Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
  7. Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  8. Selective Mutism and talking disorder
  9. Social Anxiety Disorder
  10. Separation Anxiety Disorder
Course Details – How to book and cost

Stepping Stones courses run for ten weeks on each topic with ongoing classes rotating throughout the year in venues across the UK.

Each session lasts for one and a half hours.

The cost is £45per child per session (£450 per child per ten-week course), payable in full at the beginning of each course.

To find courses running in your area please contact info@planetme.org.uk

Parents/children/young people will be asked to fill in a short anonymous questionnaire at the beginning and end of their Stepping Stones course.

Planet Me ’Community Chats’ - talks and workshops for parents – ideal for parents of children who attend Life Links

Community Chats offer support to parents/carers in the form of regular talks, workshops, friendship/peer empowerment and positive parenting sessions hosted by Planet Me Communication Coaches with carefully selected invited therapists and professionals to talk on a variety of subjects linked to growing up in an ever changing, fast moving modern Britain.

Course details – How to book and cost

Community Chats run regular meetings throughout the year in venues across the UK. Each session lasts for one and a half hours, the cost is £10 per person.

To find courses running in your area please contact info@planetme.org.uk

Parents will be asked to fill in a short anonymous questionnaire at the beginning and end of their Community Chat course.

Planet Me Let’s Talk Parenting- ideal for parents whose children attend Stepping Stones

Let’s Talk Parenting - small group, aims to offer support, comfort and where needed action in a constructive, positive, non-judgmental way by initiating conversations with parents & care givers. The Let’s Talk Parenting - small group works by discussing the same core subjects that are covered in the children’s Stepping Stones course, looking in depth from both children and parents’ perspective. Planet Me Coaches navigate parents through children’s general thoughts, feedback and facts to form the backbone of this unique talking course.

Course details – How to book and cost

‘Let’s Talk Parenting’ run courses of five sessions each.

Ongoing classes run throughout the year in venues across the UK.

Each session lasts for one and a half hours.

The cost is £10 per person per session, payable in advance at the beginning of the 5 weeks. To find courses running in your area please contact info@planetme.org.uk

People will be asked to fill in a short anonymous questionnaire at the beginning and end of their Let’s Talk Parenting course.

Planet Me – PSHE classroom - an online tool for schools and home educators.

PSHE classroom is an online tool developed to help children simply start a conversation about their PSHE concerns. Designed for teachers to use in the classroom to engage young people in Personal, Social, Health and Economic Education (PSHE) - a subject which helps pupils to keep themselves and others healthy and safe as it prepares them for life and work in the modern world.

Planet Me – PSHE classroom is an online collection of short filmed scenarios (with various ending options) with expert opinions, which are clear, honest, non-personalised statements collected from Doctors, Scientists, Teachers & Psychiatrists on particular subjects. It includes key facts and encourages peer group discussions. All these conversation prompts create a starting point to enable the young audience to form their own opinions by discussing, exploring and considering various choices, changes, outcomes and consequences around each of the subjects covered.

Using these simple but effective conversation prompts allows the teacher to act more as a facilitator, rather than a lecturer, encouraging open discussion and thoughts around a broad range of subjects. By spring-boarding conversations from a collection of facts on a subject we enable each individual child to build their own opinion and personalise the topic for themselves. Each child is able to join in and experience the discussion in their own way, remembering that a great deal can be gained and learnt from hearing and sharing their peer’s personal experiences as well as sharing their own thoughts.

Planet Me is a versatile tool that lends itself to exploring all aspects of PSHE. By empowering children to form their own opinions on a subject we actively encourage the art of conversation, expressing yourself, listening to & respecting others, making choices and understanding the consequences of your actions and words whilst simultaneously promoting personal confidence and self-belief.

Planet Me is divided into both year groups and subjects appropriate to them mapped directly to the current school curriculum.

Planet Me topics include:

Healthy Me

  • Alcohol, Smoking, Drugs (Addictions)
  • Personal Hygiene
  • Sleep (Being scared, bed wetting, not sleeping, nightmares and dreams)
  • Healthy Eating (Diet, exercise, fussy and picky eaters)
  • Sex Education
  • My Body (Touching, Social Awareness, Saying no, Self-Harm)

Emotional Me

  • Fears (Illness, paranoia, phobias)
  • Shame, Worries (Secrets. Self Esteem)
  • Mood Swings (Feelings, hormones, temper tantrums)
  • Stress/Anxiety (Making difficult choices)
  • Managing Change/Transition (Exams, moving home/school)
  • Managing Conflict (Arguing and bickering, gossip)

Physical Me

  • Body Image, Puberty (envy/competition)
  • Motivation (to try, to do your best, to make good choices, self-belief, independence)
  • Unsociable behaviour (swearing, spitting, bad language, biting, hitting)
  • Criticism (how to learn from it, how to accept it, how to give good advice)
  • Keeping Safe (on-line, outdoors, road safety, at home, stranger awareness)
  • Attraction/Feelings (consent and healthy relationships, respect, kindness, empathy)
For more details please contact info@planetme.org.uk

Planet Me Communication Coach

Planet Me Coaches run the Life Link weekly sessions, host Community Chats and some choose to train further and run the Stepping Stone courses.

Full support and training are given. All materials for the classes are supplied.

A Planet Me coach is self-employed and is able to choose their own working hours to suit their personal situation. In order to be a Planet Me Communication coach you will need to provide both character and work references and hold an enhanced DBS certificate (information on how to apply for this available through info@planetme.org.uk)

Planet Me Ltd is an equal opportunities employer.

A Planet Me Coach is someone who has a natural way with people, both children, young people and parents. They are friendly, caring, responsible, inspiring, hard-working, reliable, conscientious, kind and approachable. A Planet Me Coach is engaging, has zest for and interest in life. They are excellent communicators and listeners. They have a great sense of humour and are problem solvers. They are actively empathetic, encouraging, supportive, authentic and genuine. They have the confidence and the ability to read a situation and know when to share and when to listen. They respect others and are able to remain impartial and non-judgmental. They are selflessly willing and able to share their own life experiences with others in order to further their development. They are self-reliant and emotionally resilient. They are organised and able to follow structure with the ability to be flexible and adaptable. They are confident and strong. They are emotionally balanced and mentally able to work and adapt to demanding stressful situations. They are awesome individuals who work well as part of a team.

If you are interested in applying to be a Planet Me Coach, for more information please email info@planetme.org.uk mark email COACH

Planet Me Products

Coming soon...

Planet Me books

  • Adgual and Obeily – a story of imagination and true friendship (4-6 years)
  • The Story of Me – a story of change and self-discovery (7-9 years)
  • Blank Canvas – a story of choices and consequences (10-13 years)

Market Need

Ofsted has said that ‘PSHE education is not yet good enough in schools with the subject often taught by untrained teachers with inadequate curriculum time’.

The Department for Education (DfE) has stated in section 2.5 of the national curriculum framework that ‘All schools should make provision for Personal, Social, Health and Economic education (PSHE), drawing on good practice.’

Schools by their own admission are struggling to deal with the consequences of pupils not being facilitated to discuss PSHE issues. Professionals such as GPs, social services and the emergency services have to pick up the pieces and deal with the after-effects of these missed conversations.

Mental health issues are top of the agenda in today’s society. We are hearing more and more news stories of people that have reached adulthood having not been listened to as children and consequently suffering with their mental health.

  • In 2004, 1 in 10 children, 5-16 years, had a diagnosable mental health disorder– that’s around 3 children in every class.
  • 50% of all mental health problems manifest before the age of 14, with 3 in 4 enduring mental health conditions being present by the age of 24.
  • 1 in 4 of young people in the UK experience suicidal thoughts.
  • Number of children presented in A&E with psychiatric conditions have more than doubled since 2009 (over 17,000 cases)
  • Among teenagers, rates of depression and anxiety have increased by 70% in 25 years
  • There has been a big increase in the number of young people being admitted to hospital because of self- harm. Over the last 10 years this figure has increased by 68%.
  • More than half of all adults with mental health problems were diagnosed in childhood. Less than half were treated appropriately at the time.

(Source: Young Minds)

According to MHT (mental health today), 4 May 2018 “Communication is a key ingredient in mental health recovery – ‘Effective communication is essential in building rapport and developing therapeutic relationships’. Being able to communicate how you feel can help others to understand you better – and we all want to be understood. However, mental distress can affect communication, so there are times when it can be much harder to find the words – even for articulate adults, never mind for young people. The experience of either not being able to express yourself or feeling as though you have not been listened to, can make you feel diminished, unimportant, misunderstood, alienated, without value, and alone.”

“PSHE education requires improvement and the situation appears to have worsened. This would not be tolerated in other subjects. We accept the argument that statutory status is needed. The statutory requirement should have minimal prescription of content to ensure schools have flexibility to respond to local needs and priorities.”

“PSHE education requires improvement and the situation appears to have worsened. This would not be tolerated in other subjects. We accept the argument that statutory status is needed. The statutory requirement should have minimal prescription of content to ensure schools have flexibility to respond to local needs and priorities.”

Commons Education Committee Life Lessons report, February 2015

“There is no question PSHE should be on every curriculum as it is at the frontline of child protection.”

Peter Wanless, Chief Executive, NSPCC, August 2015

All schools will teach children about good physical and mental health, how to stay safe on and offline, and the importance of healthy relationships under new bold plans published 19 July 2018 by Education Secretary Damian Hinds. He said:

“I want to make sure that our children are able to grow up to become happy and well-rounded individuals who know how to deal with the challenges of the modern world. Part of this is making sure they are informed about how to keep themselves safe and healthy and have good relationships with others.

Many of today’s problems did not exist when we last gave schools guidance on how to teach relationships and sex education 18 years ago. The action we’re taking is important to help support teachers and schools design a curriculum that will enrich their pupils in an age appropriate way.

Good physical and mental health is also at the heart of ensuring young people are ready for the adult world. By making health education compulsory we are giving young people the tools they need to be ready to thrive when they leave school”

Schools are now encouraged to begin updating their PSHE provision in order to be ready for 2020. (The PSHE Association)

  • 6 million people in the UK experience a mental illness.
  • Three in four mental illnesses start in childhood.
  • 10% of school children have a diagnosable mental illness.
  • Mental Health identified as Southampton’s number one issue for 2018.

(Healthwatch Southampton website)

  • 75% of young people with a mental health problem are not receiving treatment, with average wait time for effective treatment around 10 months.
  • Many children with depression and anxiety are often not being identified or given help. The average wait for effective treatment is 10 years. Opportunities to help are often missed until they reach “crisis”, causing children to self-harm, become suicidal, be violent and aggressive or drop out of school.
  • Suicide is the biggest killer of young people in the UK.
  • More than half of young people link mental illness with alienation and isolation.
  • More than half of young people feel embarrassed about mental illness
The Guardian Labs. MQ Transforming Mental Health. 2019

Office of National Statistics (ONS) figures show that in the year 2017 - 187 under 19s took their own lives, compared with 162 the year before - a rise of 15 per cent.

"There is a significant increase in child mental health and anxiety, as a society we have to ask why. Today’s next generation can engage successfully in technology, but a cost of this is that children do not always feel comfortable to share their anxieties or curiosity with their parents; this is common place in school. This proposal will engage with children on a number of levels, it will encourage them to start talking at home and also give a clear message that their worries and questions are just like the rest of their peers and also give them some of the answers that they have been looking for. As a professional and a parent I would welcome this program!"

Jo Walker - Head teacher Merdon Junior School, 2016

“As a practicing GP I often see young people struggling with distress caused by bullying, health anxieties and difficulties in their personal relationships. This can manifest itself as mental illness and I believe a resource like Planet Me could help answer many of their questions and enable them to start conversations with friends and family. This could then stop their distress becoming overwhelming and resulting in school avoidance, isolation and self-harm which I commonly see.”

Dr Sandy Miles – GP, 2016

“Children have the most inquisitive minds, they seek knowledge and are constantly asking questions. A program such as Planet Me, gives children opportunities to ask these questions and receive answers from a range of experts. We should encourage these questioning skills and give children opportunities to have their questions valued. As children move through the education system, they become less and less confident at asking the questions they have, being scared of saying the ‘wrong’ thing. A program like this, which values all sorts of questions will show children that all questions have value and that they should never stop asking questions”

Kathryn Woods-Townsend - LifeLab Programme Manager, University of Southampton.